How many relationships have ended in heartbreak and sadness? Quite a few! The idea that your man or woman could have ever brought you lasting fulfilment and happiness was a dream. The reason we feel heartbreak and sadness when someone walks out of our life is because we become obsessively attached to this person. You must realise that love is not possession…it’s who you are.
We must drop the idea of falling in love. Because falling in love implies that we never felt the love in the first place. We fall in love with someone who brings us pleasure and happiness, but when they stop making us feel this way…our love turns into hate.
You have to come to an understanding with yourself. You must find who you are behind your imperfections. Only then can you accept the imperfections in someone else. There is no longer a fear of losing anyone because you cannot loose the love that is always present within yourself.
“We must drop the idea of falling in love. Because falling in love implies that we never felt the love in the first place.”
Coming to this understanding allows you to see that everyone is your soulmate. This allows you to connect with someone without the connection falling into jealousy and hate. So find this love within yourself and you will see this love reflected everywhere else.
“Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love- now you are love” ~ Osho